Self-affirmation
Point: Can you accept your bad side?The feeling of being recognized for your existence.
Ability has little to do with self-affirmation.
Determined by the relationship with the parent during growth.
People with low self-affirmation
People with low self-affirmation are common throughout the education industry.The deviation value is mostly in private high school students in their early 40s,
but it is also unexpectedly high in higher school students.
Buy brand-name products or perform self-defense actions
to look down on people and raise a sense of self-affirmation
(many of the presidents and employees of cram schools).
Highly dependent on the surroundings. (= I don't have my own opinion).
I have a feeling of distrust in my surroundings.
Self-efficacy
Point: The feeling that I can do it.People who give too much
Some people with low self-affirmation are too devoted to being recognized.The behavior is great,
but it makes the other person uncomfortable and unexpectedly unfavorable.
People who are easily used by people with narcissistic personality disorders,
which will be described later.
The reason is that you are surrounded by people who are weaker
than you and you have an advantage in the community.
It is also common for weak elderly people and children (nurses, nurses).
It goes well with a cram school teacher who is easy to use. By the time the lie comes out,
it is difficult for the bad publicity to spread because of the entrance examination,
and it is often the case that he is sitting in a cram school.
I tell a lie, but in my brain, my ideal self is repainted with my real self.
They can't stay in a big company for a long time
because they buy a lie without noticing the consistency of their lie.
(Also often played in aptitude tests.)
Since there are many in the media industry,
it is not widely reported on TV and newspapers,
but it has a greater adverse effect on the general public
than problems such as LGBT and developmental disabilities.
How to identify a narcissistic personality disorder
It looks like a reptile. Men have many faces like snakes,and women have many faces like Prajna.
Because of his low ability to see himself objectively,
he cannot be aware of his intentional behavior
and fashion that makes him feel uncomfortable.
I'm looking at people with my sideways eyes, which makes my eyes flutter.
Because the brain is primitive, it is obsessed with food, money, and the opposite sex.
How to deal with narcissistic personality disorder
I'll deny it, but don't be depressed, you can get angry at worst,but it's better to react indifferently to "Huh" and "Is that so?"
In order to attack the opponent after rubbing,
it is necessary to refuse refreshingly because the snooping is persistent.
Autism
Point: They can't read the context, and I'm uncomfortable if I don't follow my rules = Autism (ASD),a type of developmental disorder.
There are surprisingly few ASD teachers, many of whom are tutor students and some employees.
It is rare for grades to improve.
Honestly, the approach of a cram school teacher is quite difficult.
Often co-occurs with NPD.
It is said that 20% of those who passed the University of Tokyo have ASD,
but the average IQ of autistic people is about 90,
and just because they have autism does not mean that they have high intelligence.
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
Point: Nervous system disease = Attention Deficit Hyperactivity (ADHD),a type of developmental disorder
About 40% of cases have autism. Many managers and employees also have NPD.
I'm always noisy during class, so I'm quite tired.
There are quite a lot of cram school owners. There are also many instructors.
Ordinary neurotypicals who lack sleep may have similar symptoms and are somewhat difficult to distinguish.
Intellectual disability
Students with severe intellectual disabilities are rarely tutors or tutors.Boys with IQ70-85 often have difficulty in self-affirmation.
Dunning-Kruger effect
Point: Incompetence values oneself, and competent people value oneself.Lecturers at lower universities in the countryside and students at self-proclaimed schools
in the countryside tend to fall into the trap.
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